To begin with, I need to make it clear to the reader that this is an opinion and theory based post.
I believe that the bluepill is not only cope, but is is also dangerous.
Why?
Let me tell you with a nice concise list of reasons:
The bluepill is deluding men into thinking they can strongarm women into loving them, just by some persistance and confidence. On the flip side of this I argue that it is actually dangerous. The man risks sexual assault charges and risking his whole life. And this is due to being conditioned to believe he is good enough, he just has to be confident bro.
The next point is to do with a mans own mental health. Sure, the blackpill and it's followers are notoriously bad with their mental health. But I think it is also the case with bluepilled men. Imaginine thinking your character, your essence., your personality is undeserving of loving. That to me is much more brutal than the belief, "I deserve to be loved, but I know my looks aren't enough to be loved, I cannot control my genetics though and this is not my fault". For bluepillers, they live in a negative cycle of not believing that they are enough, followed by trying to compensate it, changing who they fundamentally are, masking their true identity to what women say they want. And still getting nowhere, and being told they are just not funny enough , or kind enough or confident enough. No wonder men are among the highest rate of suicide.
The third point I will make, is when you look at life through a bluepilled lense. You actually make worse objective decisions in life, not just in the realms of dating. For instance, a bluepiller may be taken advantage of more often. They don't wanna come off as a rude guy, they are more likely to wageslave and go into the career doom cycle. Believing that women will value a man who loves his job, therefore sacrificing their youth for a fallacy of a belief. How's about their hobbies, instead of enjoying their hobbies. They try joining groups where women will be, and they becoem the creep motherfucker who nobody really likes in a group. So to conclude, holding an objectively wrong mental model of the world makes these people make bad choices. And this leads to making a worse mess of their lives.
And let's talk about frustration, this is why we get young people shooting schools, assassinating politcal figures, becoming rapists. They become frustrated with life, they think that (to an extreme) if they can be seen in the confident and virtuous light they see themselves in, or they can take out their rage and sexual desires that this is the only way to win. Sure this is low iq, but to someone who feels they keep trying and trying to win by the rules they are told. It makes sense for them to break them, to get what they want. And a lot of the time, being lonely men, mental health isn't the best anyway. No wonder we see them taking out rage in these manners.
And it is pointless!
So whenever somebody comes to me, and says "anon, the blackpill is a dangerous ideology" I argue, it is not dangerous. No more than the normal ways of thinking. But it leads to a way of life, less painful. Less frustrating, and better decisions for its followers.
Rarely do I see a Blackpiller approach women he knows aren't attracted to him, it is rare I see blackpillers be sexual assault perps (mainly because they know what they can, and cannot get away with in terms of their looks), rarely do blackpillers make stupid decisions in terms of living their life in a way they deem satisfying (I don't mean our lives are good, I mean we don't chase our tails trying to chase the carrot on the stick).
In regards to people going ER. This is not solely a blackpilled thing, it is what happens when mentally unwell people. Whom cannot control their emotions take out their rage to the extreme.
And in terms of blackpilled men who go ER, they know better. They should do anyway. They should know it will not cure inceldom, it will not make their life better, it will just paint our community with a bad brush. IT is not a viable solution to loneliness, but being loved would be.
But at the same time, bluepilled people, or people who believe whatever they want still start mass shootings. These people are not representative of the majority of people though, they are merely a small (albeit disproportionate) group of many male populous.
So to finish this essay, don't be foolish. Do not let somebody make you feel inadequate. You are genetically predetermined to be unloved, and your loneliness is valid. Do with your life what you want, and think and see things clearly. For what they are. Not what you wish it was, or would be easiest. You save yourself a lot of bad decisions and wrong turns in life this way
What I believe:
I believe that the bluepill is not only cope, but is is also dangerous.
Why?
Let me tell you with a nice concise list of reasons:
- Men will become more likely to be a sex offender because they do not realise the woman is not gonna fall for them
- It deludes men into believing that they have a chance, and will forever feel like they are not enough for the woman
- It can cause greate cognitive dissonance, which will lead to resentment of the self. Also potentially dangerously delusional thinking
- It not only makes people more likely to make a fool of themselves, but it also can lead to suicide.
- Lower self worth
- When a man doesn't understand why life isn't working "how it should" it can be unbelieveably frustrating!
So why is this dangerous?
Well for all of the reasons mentioned above.The bluepill is deluding men into thinking they can strongarm women into loving them, just by some persistance and confidence. On the flip side of this I argue that it is actually dangerous. The man risks sexual assault charges and risking his whole life. And this is due to being conditioned to believe he is good enough, he just has to be confident bro.
The next point is to do with a mans own mental health. Sure, the blackpill and it's followers are notoriously bad with their mental health. But I think it is also the case with bluepilled men. Imaginine thinking your character, your essence., your personality is undeserving of loving. That to me is much more brutal than the belief, "I deserve to be loved, but I know my looks aren't enough to be loved, I cannot control my genetics though and this is not my fault". For bluepillers, they live in a negative cycle of not believing that they are enough, followed by trying to compensate it, changing who they fundamentally are, masking their true identity to what women say they want. And still getting nowhere, and being told they are just not funny enough , or kind enough or confident enough. No wonder men are among the highest rate of suicide.
The third point I will make, is when you look at life through a bluepilled lense. You actually make worse objective decisions in life, not just in the realms of dating. For instance, a bluepiller may be taken advantage of more often. They don't wanna come off as a rude guy, they are more likely to wageslave and go into the career doom cycle. Believing that women will value a man who loves his job, therefore sacrificing their youth for a fallacy of a belief. How's about their hobbies, instead of enjoying their hobbies. They try joining groups where women will be, and they becoem the creep motherfucker who nobody really likes in a group. So to conclude, holding an objectively wrong mental model of the world makes these people make bad choices. And this leads to making a worse mess of their lives.
And let's talk about frustration, this is why we get young people shooting schools, assassinating politcal figures, becoming rapists. They become frustrated with life, they think that (to an extreme) if they can be seen in the confident and virtuous light they see themselves in, or they can take out their rage and sexual desires that this is the only way to win. Sure this is low iq, but to someone who feels they keep trying and trying to win by the rules they are told. It makes sense for them to break them, to get what they want. And a lot of the time, being lonely men, mental health isn't the best anyway. No wonder we see them taking out rage in these manners.
And it is pointless!
concluding thoughts
So whenever somebody comes to me, and says "anon, the blackpill is a dangerous ideology" I argue, it is not dangerous. No more than the normal ways of thinking. But it leads to a way of life, less painful. Less frustrating, and better decisions for its followers.
Rarely do I see a Blackpiller approach women he knows aren't attracted to him, it is rare I see blackpillers be sexual assault perps (mainly because they know what they can, and cannot get away with in terms of their looks), rarely do blackpillers make stupid decisions in terms of living their life in a way they deem satisfying (I don't mean our lives are good, I mean we don't chase our tails trying to chase the carrot on the stick).
In regards to people going ER. This is not solely a blackpilled thing, it is what happens when mentally unwell people. Whom cannot control their emotions take out their rage to the extreme.
And in terms of blackpilled men who go ER, they know better. They should do anyway. They should know it will not cure inceldom, it will not make their life better, it will just paint our community with a bad brush. IT is not a viable solution to loneliness, but being loved would be.
But at the same time, bluepilled people, or people who believe whatever they want still start mass shootings. These people are not representative of the majority of people though, they are merely a small (albeit disproportionate) group of many male populous.
So to finish this essay, don't be foolish. Do not let somebody make you feel inadequate. You are genetically predetermined to be unloved, and your loneliness is valid. Do with your life what you want, and think and see things clearly. For what they are. Not what you wish it was, or would be easiest. You save yourself a lot of bad decisions and wrong turns in life this way
