Nav’s Science-Backed Mega Thread: Becoming a Seducer
(1st version with no AI https://looksmax.cc/threads/seducer-no-ai-used-gih.1208/)
If you’re a Chad, you won’t need charisma or seduction to slay.
If you aren’t… you will.The Core Fantasy of Women
Women crave domination. It’s literally what they were biologically wired to be attracted to. They want to be dominated by good-genetic guys.
They want to feel special that out of all the women you could pull, you chose her because there’s something uniquely special about her.
Every romance novel is the same script: Chad falls in love with the LTB because he sees something in her that makes him ignore every Stacy for her.(JFL)
Their evolutionary goals also include “finding a father” who will actually stick around (this is why prettyboys go crazy popular). They eroticise the best man for their child who won’t leave.
They want to feel desired to feel so hot that the Chad literally can’t resist them .Most erotic/smut novels? It’s just an alpha Chad who wants her so bad he “can’t help himself” and takes her (dominating her).
They also want him to have intelligent genes so she doesn’t have to use her low-IQ brain, plus raw masculinity where he doesn’t let anyone push him around. They fantasise about male power.
And yes they want Dark Triad mixed with Romance/Drama.
Primal play (or primal kink) is a BDSM dynamic focused on raw, instinctual behaviour — predator/prey chasing, hunting, escaping. Biting, scratching, growling, roaring. Pure high-thrill instinctual play.(LMK if I should drop a full kinks thread)
The #1 Thing Women Crave in Men (Other Than Genes): DOMINANCE
The MOST important trait. Period.
98% of my research came down to this one word. MTN who is very dominant > LHTN who is not dominant.
What is dominance?
Having power, control, superiority — influence, authority, higher status. Taking the lead. Strength. Not being afraid of hard things. Being the protector who handles everything for her.
Evolutionary reason: Highest chance of survival for her and her kids. She wants you to do everything for her.
Requires high T + manliness. Manly = knowing what’s wrong and right, and standing up for it.
But how? If you’re not yet Chad-level attractive to her, use gentle dominance (society forces this).
You dominate her physically (tall + big clavicles + bone mass) AND mentally. Chad can just rape her and she loves it. You (LTN) do that → jail.
Mental dominance = Leading her, making decisions she doesn’t want to make, being her caretaker, doing the things she hates doing.
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Horizontal Axis (Bad Boy Energy):
- Looks
- Masculinity
- Dark Triad
- Height
- Voice
- Dominance & Power
Vertical Axis (Investment):
- Time, money, attention
- Willing to reject other bitches for her
Goal = Prince Charming quadrant (High on both axes).
Examples:
- 50 Shades of Grey — Billionaire Chad falls in love with LTB and gives her dominant primal sex. Same script as every romance novel.
- Gangster Movies — Every gangster (high dark-triad + dominance) has a HTB with perfect ass & tits.
No looks/height yet? → Maxx status + showcase preselection (future thread).
Do’s & Don’ts
DON’Ts (always kill attraction):- Emotionally weak
- Easily pushed around
DO’s:- Confident + strong body language
- Assertive
- Manly (know right/wrong & stand up for it)
Infantilizing Praise & Gentle Dominance Examples
(Used AI for ts to summarise some bs)- (babying her achievements)
- Playful mocking: “Aww nooo, it must be so upsetting~”
- Comforting: “it’s okay sweetie, it’s gonna be alright” + soothing voice
Simple daily dominance: Lead her across the road holding her hand, talk to the guy who approaches her, make decisions when she’s confused.(NOT AI)
Mix in drama & romance, never let it get boring.
Kinks
Kinks originate from trauma.
Research: 62% of women admit to rape kinks (real number closer to 89.78% for teenage girls; only from HMTN+).
This does NOT mean they want actual rape (unless you’re Chad OFC).
Science: Linked to brain chemistry (cortisol/testosterone), dopamine sensitivity, early imprinting, and stress reduction through intense sensation.
More trauma = rougher sex she craves (same reason women self-harm).All teenage girls have daddy & mommy issues. Use it.
Trauma & How to Use It
Be funny + light-hearted. Make her life better. Then comfortably make her open up. Comfort her while she talks. Works 10x better with preselection.
Rule: Be with her sparingly. You can only move forward with a foid never backwards.
How to Listen (The Secret I Used to Pull HTBs)
Create a safe space.
- Never relate to her trauma (“yeah same happened to me”).Instead: “WOAH… that must’ve been rough for you.”
- When she opens up: STFU. Just listen, nod, show emotion. Max 3 sentences at a time.
- Act extremely interested. Ask the questions you wish people asked you.
- Study podcasters (not Matan Evans). They never assume — they ask to break emotional barriers.
Non-verbal: Nod, “aha”, “oh”, lean in slightly, open body language.
Rep or get pegged
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