Im done with living here at home,
(Kinda a long post, need to vent ab it)
3 months ago i moved further away from my friends (i used to drive 10 minutes with my scooter to see them and now i need to drive 40 minutes), my college is also an hour away and the girl im talking with also lives an hour away from where i live now.
Thats also kinda fucked bc i have bad skin and i cant stay 40 fucking minutes driving in cold asf air, but thats looks related.
I live with my grandparents and they also just lwk dont even care ab me anymore. They only fear monger me into things like starting my own bussines or living alone etc etc
I recently got a new job (wich is kinda high paying) and they just laughed and said i couldnt do it.
I want to move out in februari and just ghost them for maybe a few months to a year, i also dont really want contact with anyone else from my family from that point.
They see themself as surpirior over me and they dont care ab my mental health.
They laugh ab the friends i have, they laugh ab the girl im talking too, they laugh ab my new job.
They litteraly dont fucking care ab me in any way possible, they even downplay how i am ND.
I start working this weekend and i will save up all the money i make, i made a new bank account so they dont see how much i make, i ordered a few suitcases and i will just hide them in my room for when its time to move out.
Only fucked thing is that i still gotta find a place to rent, i want a appartement but that shits expensive here in Belgium.
So i will prob just go live in a dorm for now (there like €500 a month with water and electricity included).
I expect my life only to get better from the point i move out.
Does anyone who knows someone or is in the same situaten have advice for all of the things i can do to make it go faster ?
(Kinda a long post, need to vent ab it)
3 months ago i moved further away from my friends (i used to drive 10 minutes with my scooter to see them and now i need to drive 40 minutes), my college is also an hour away and the girl im talking with also lives an hour away from where i live now.
Thats also kinda fucked bc i have bad skin and i cant stay 40 fucking minutes driving in cold asf air, but thats looks related.
I live with my grandparents and they also just lwk dont even care ab me anymore. They only fear monger me into things like starting my own bussines or living alone etc etc
I recently got a new job (wich is kinda high paying) and they just laughed and said i couldnt do it.
I want to move out in februari and just ghost them for maybe a few months to a year, i also dont really want contact with anyone else from my family from that point.
They see themself as surpirior over me and they dont care ab my mental health.
They laugh ab the friends i have, they laugh ab the girl im talking too, they laugh ab my new job.
They litteraly dont fucking care ab me in any way possible, they even downplay how i am ND.
I start working this weekend and i will save up all the money i make, i made a new bank account so they dont see how much i make, i ordered a few suitcases and i will just hide them in my room for when its time to move out.
Only fucked thing is that i still gotta find a place to rent, i want a appartement but that shits expensive here in Belgium.
So i will prob just go live in a dorm for now (there like €500 a month with water and electricity included).
I expect my life only to get better from the point i move out.
Does anyone who knows someone or is in the same situaten have advice for all of the things i can do to make it go faster ?