i find it so hard to fake my personality just so i can have freinds and not look like a loser at school
Serious best way to fit in?
- Thread starter Zygokiller
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This is something I’m yet to master myself tbh
Ig being nt, having nt hobbies and being fairly nonchalant is the best way that’s worked for me to be less autistic
Ig being nt, having nt hobbies and being fairly nonchalant is the best way that’s worked for me to be less autistic
For me, the best way to fit in. Be yourself and you will attract other people that find interest on your persona, even though some people may find it cringe or else.
Tbh I am usually always myself, but I am unlikable and antisocial
Why?
I successfully act NT, and i will the rest of my life and i want to help other people that stuck in their anti social life
I am, I guess , abrupt. I don't care about normie things like soccer, TV, nt, celebrities.
I care about making my money, making myself good looking and creating a hell of a life for myself. This doesn't make you a very likeable person, people would rather enjoy their mediocre comfort zones and not push themselves, than suffer in the hopes (but no promise) of a better future
Help me then, what can I do. I am in my 20s, I have no friends, I don't have in person uni campus and I work a job with fuck ass middle aged colleagues
I suggest to you, to start stalking people lol and then start learning whatever fuck they do, if you accidentally found someone that has same preferences on taste music or something, do it. Start dm-ing lol, i personally use that method because i think it will work. But it's actually working. If they had a story that mentioning a movie in highlights, start by replying on that story and don't weird shit. Just say "you like that movie/anime?" And then if u got idled/on read, just say "my bad if i bothered u or acting weird, but i feels like you can be a good friend, i'm actually interested enough to be your friend" That method i found on my research actually, because we're in a physiological game here.
or post what is your liking. For example if you like anime that goes deep af, post that anime by mentioning on your Instagram story (can be a song from that anime, or a reference that only a viewer from that anime knew). After that, you should work on your social skills. I do not care if you has high inhibition or whatever shit, start greeting people in the street, mainly targets older people because they're humble af. Why? Because i have a social anxiety before and i know how to take care of myself and i have a determination and motivation.
IN LIFE YOU NEED TO BE THE ONE THAT DOMINATE NOT THE ONE THAT GOT DOMINATED.
I will help you.
Miirin this to be honest, thanks for the advice bro.
I will try it out , it is a little difficult mainly because I am not in school or anything I am very isolated
Goodluck brah
Thanks broski, you are gonna be one of the GOATs on here I can feel it in my bones
JFL
, but thanks. Maybe i will
real idk how tf to act NT
Act normal
