I agree I’m glad that there is some reasonable thought involved in our community.
The blanket “I hate foids” group, although satisfying is a fallacious argument.
First and foremost human nature is to blame, Chad will allow hypergamy to happen, women will date up, guys will jester goon and treat women well etc.
Every cause of our problems is somewhat engineered on both sides, both men and women are to blame for creating this scenario.
Unfortunately though, this is the way of the world. I won’t look back on other cultures or times in history when things were different and say if things were better then. But I know the rules of the game now are as such, all we can do is maximise all areas of our statistics.