Unlike what the autistic shills for their own courses will tell you. The easy to do softmaxxes are not going to get you all the way to the finish line depending on your start point.
Of course I am not saying, that softmaxxing is irrelevant.
Quite the contrary actually, see it is important to some extent. And is the bare minimum that everyone should do, especially if one is blackpilled and aware of the importance of looks in society.
But equally ,at the same time, you need to know what your likely end goal can be with softmaxxing, and also be aware which hardmaxxes you need.
Every case is unique, and I would advise asking for advice from myself, or from a reputable user on the site, they can help tell you unbiased what is wrong, what can be fixed, and where you can likely ascend to with certain looksmaxxes.
You should be able to sit down and create a checklist, of things you need, a plan on how you will escape your incel situation.
For instance I will give you mine, as I am aware of what is holding me back lookswise, and why I cannot attract the calibre of women I deem acceptable (I know I am a volcel, but I train, I looksmax. I don't look horrible. But I can only attract slightly below average women, or complelely average and fat women. I would be happy with a MTB that ISN'T fat).
Once you have your list which is objectively what you need, you can use it to figure out your predicted looks level after you complete the list.
My Current looks level : 5.5 - 6/10
Potential : 6.5-7/10
In the east or a better geomaxxing area, this could be chadlite - chad appeal.
This is the only way to actually build a looksmaxxing strategy.
Niggas love to talk and talk and talk about which surgery they will get, and what looksmax they will do when they get xyz money. I find most users on looksmax sites don't take action. Other than the easy softmaxxes, they get a girlfriend by oofy doofy maxxing. And then they just turn their back on the blackpill. And the story usually ends the same, she leaves. Whether that is 6 months or 2 years later. They find themselves alone, and it is because they just weren't attractive enough, and the means they got with the girl was in such a way. She always had the power.
They never take action to get to their max looks level, so remember, take action on this plan. Make it a reality.
On this note btw, I will write a guide about not even trying to date until one has gotten to their absolute best looks level. There is absolutely no point. You are just gonna make the game harder for youself, face rejection and be seen as a creep at worst by hitting on women when you aren't fully as good looking as you can be!
On a different note too, don't get distracted! Don't fall for stupid traps like "invest in xyz bro". Or "just save until retirement bro". I will write a seperate post about why looksmaxxing in your youth (teens - 20s) is ideal. However, the next best time to go all in is today!!
But that is the point I am making here, put all your money on black(pill). It is the only investment that is worth it. The only investment that will keep giving healthy dividends in every day, every area of your life. Every penny that is spent on looksmaxxing, is more than worth it. It opens all manner of new doors for you, it opens up opportunity, it opens up relationships, friendships. It all in all returns a more meaningful life, compard to whatever you could and would have used the money for!
So make sure you build your strategy, you have a plan that isn't wishful thinking. You know what you will do, and what each looksmax will do for you. And you will know when you are good looking enough to get looking for a partner. Get on online dating, whatever.
So that is all for today, remember you gotta swallow the truth. It hurts, but it cares for your more than any of those pretty lies.
Thanks for reading , I would love to hear any thoughts, arguments against etc in the comments
Of course I am not saying, that softmaxxing is irrelevant.
Quite the contrary actually, see it is important to some extent. And is the bare minimum that everyone should do, especially if one is blackpilled and aware of the importance of looks in society.
But equally ,at the same time, you need to know what your likely end goal can be with softmaxxing, and also be aware which hardmaxxes you need.
Every case is unique, and I would advise asking for advice from myself, or from a reputable user on the site, they can help tell you unbiased what is wrong, what can be fixed, and where you can likely ascend to with certain looksmaxxes.
You should be able to sit down and create a checklist, of things you need, a plan on how you will escape your incel situation.
For instance I will give you mine, as I am aware of what is holding me back lookswise, and why I cannot attract the calibre of women I deem acceptable (I know I am a volcel, but I train, I looksmax. I don't look horrible. But I can only attract slightly below average women, or complelely average and fat women. I would be happy with a MTB that ISN'T fat).
- Thicker brows (I use minoxidil , failing that I will look into eyebrow hair transplant, however it is not a massive issue, the thickness I have is already acceptable)
- Dye hair darker(my hair is already quite dark, but for broader appeal. I want to have darker hair. This suits my blue eyes and tanned pheno, it will give me a certain exotic look)
- Keep brows and lashes dark(water, this frames the eyearea.)
- Keep a good maintained beard(I have a beard, and decent growth too. I just need to ensure it is well looked after, and aesthetically appealing. It gives defintion to jaw, sex appeal and also makes me look more masculine. It is my only way to appeal, I am not a pretty boy)
- Physique and gym(water, I have an above average phsique. I should maintain this and be leaner. This keeps broad appeal for an average guy like me)
- Wear 3inch shoe lifts to fraud above 6'2 (again water, height is key. It is not the ideal height, I think 6'5+ is , but it will atleast put me in the competition. Being 5'11 is invisible tier)
- Get infra orbital rim implants with some malar region for bones(needed, I have no undereye support and a lack of zygo promenance. This will bring my face to a 6.5/10 atleast)
- Work on neurotypicalness (I am experimenting with this currently: I plan to experiment with different drugs which may help with NT. But currently I use masking strategies that only work to some extent)
- Move out of the UK as the hypergamy is too high, try eastern europe, south america. Geo max. I need to research this more, I hope to try and get Rehab Room on the forum, he has really good advice about this. Would be interested to get a Geomaxxing guide.
Once you have your list which is objectively what you need, you can use it to figure out your predicted looks level after you complete the list.
For instance;
My Current looks level : 5.5 - 6/10
Potential : 6.5-7/10
In the east or a better geomaxxing area, this could be chadlite - chad appeal.
This is the only way to actually build a looksmaxxing strategy.
And the most important part, is actually taking action.
Niggas love to talk and talk and talk about which surgery they will get, and what looksmax they will do when they get xyz money. I find most users on looksmax sites don't take action. Other than the easy softmaxxes, they get a girlfriend by oofy doofy maxxing. And then they just turn their back on the blackpill. And the story usually ends the same, she leaves. Whether that is 6 months or 2 years later. They find themselves alone, and it is because they just weren't attractive enough, and the means they got with the girl was in such a way. She always had the power.
They never take action to get to their max looks level, so remember, take action on this plan. Make it a reality.
On this note btw, I will write a guide about not even trying to date until one has gotten to their absolute best looks level. There is absolutely no point. You are just gonna make the game harder for youself, face rejection and be seen as a creep at worst by hitting on women when you aren't fully as good looking as you can be!
On a different note too, don't get distracted! Don't fall for stupid traps like "invest in xyz bro". Or "just save until retirement bro". I will write a seperate post about why looksmaxxing in your youth (teens - 20s) is ideal. However, the next best time to go all in is today!!
But that is the point I am making here, put all your money on black(pill). It is the only investment that is worth it. The only investment that will keep giving healthy dividends in every day, every area of your life. Every penny that is spent on looksmaxxing, is more than worth it. It opens all manner of new doors for you, it opens up opportunity, it opens up relationships, friendships. It all in all returns a more meaningful life, compard to whatever you could and would have used the money for!
So make sure you build your strategy, you have a plan that isn't wishful thinking. You know what you will do, and what each looksmax will do for you. And you will know when you are good looking enough to get looking for a partner. Get on online dating, whatever.
So that is all for today, remember you gotta swallow the truth. It hurts, but it cares for your more than any of those pretty lies.
Thanks for reading , I would love to hear any thoughts, arguments against etc in the comments
