Discussion Parents affect on your quality of life

[Floonth]

Credit to @Pyruu (who wanted me to post this for him)

In my opinion, the single biggest route into inceldom is your parents/guardian/ whoever raised you (not to be confused with genetics, though genes obviously also play a role).

If your parents are clueless about proper nutrition when you are younger and you grow up underdeveloped? (if it’s from consuming heavy goyslop or whatever the case maybe) then your underdeveloped and it’s over.

Your parents don’t force you out of your comfort zone and you end up chronically online/antisocial? It’s over.

Your parents are physically/emotionally abusive? (ARGUABLY WORST CASE SCENARIO) That’s a direct gateway into neurodevelopmental disorders. Pretty much over.

Not to mention if you wanna go the genetics route and say environment doesn’t matter (which is cope), guess what? That still comes from your parents.

I’m not even going to get into the other stuff like how you might be born into poverty/third world country (also arguably worst case scenario) because your parents wanted to have a kid.

At the end of the day, after all the debates or arguments or whatever, are over with, it truly is a game of luck. It just depends how lucky you are. Hopefully in another life you don’t grow up underdeveloped. You actually learn how to talk to people properly, and don’t need to rely on surgery to properly develop your craniofacial structure.

I would go as far as to say DONT blame your genetics. Instead blame your parents, though in the most ideal world you wouldn’t blame anyone at all.

Edit (by me): I personally have a veery good relationship with my parents although I have no doubt that a lot of issues I have in my life were indirectly worsened by them (that being said I only have good things to say about my family and they all tried their best and continue to treat me well).

 

[Administrator]

Decent thread tbh.

I’d argue that genetics still are the number 1 reason tho buddy

But again shit parents can make your life harder.

I have no friends cuz my parents jfl

 

[Pyruu]

Decent thread tbh.

I’d argue that genetics still are the number 1 reason tho buddy

But again shit parents can make your life harder.

I have no friends cuz my parents jfl

Thank you friend ^.^

I would argue genes and parenting go hand in hand. You said parents can make your life harder, but I would argue not only harder but they can END your life. I just saw a TikTok of some mom who killed her kid because her kid had a genetic deformity. The reason her kid was deformed is because the mom wanted to have heavy alcohol consumption while pregnant and also probably other stuff as well.

They could also ruin your life indirectly. ER and Sapphire are good examples of this though I’m sure there’s many more.

A lot of people can probably attribute their recessed bones due to getting fed poison when they were in the peak years of development.

They could also attribute their NDence to their parents or side affects from their parents decisions.

All I wanted to suggest is that instead of being mad at the world or mad at your genetics (even though it’s valid to be upset at those things) the only thing that is to blame is your parents incompetence whether it’s environmentally or genetically.
I hope that makes sense.