Credit to @Pyruu (who wanted me to post this for him)
In my opinion, the single biggest route into inceldom is your parents/guardian/ whoever raised you (not to be confused with genetics, though genes obviously also play a role).
If your parents are clueless about proper nutrition when you are younger and you grow up underdeveloped? (if it’s from consuming heavy goyslop or whatever the case maybe) then your underdeveloped and it’s over.
Your parents don’t force you out of your comfort zone and you end up chronically online/antisocial? It’s over.
Your parents are physically/emotionally abusive? (ARGUABLY WORST CASE SCENARIO) That’s a direct gateway into neurodevelopmental disorders. Pretty much over.
Not to mention if you wanna go the genetics route and say environment doesn’t matter (which is cope), guess what? That still comes from your parents.
I’m not even going to get into the other stuff like how you might be born into poverty/third world country (also arguably worst case scenario) because your parents wanted to have a kid.
At the end of the day, after all the debates or arguments or whatever, are over with, it truly is a game of luck. It just depends how lucky you are. Hopefully in another life you don’t grow up underdeveloped. You actually learn how to talk to people properly, and don’t need to rely on surgery to properly develop your craniofacial structure.
I would go as far as to say DONT blame your genetics. Instead blame your parents, though in the most ideal world you wouldn’t blame anyone at all.
Edit (by me): I personally have a veery good relationship with my parents although I have no doubt that a lot of issues I have in my life were indirectly worsened by them (that being said I only have good things to say about my family and they all tried their best and continue to treat me well).
In my opinion, the single biggest route into inceldom is your parents/guardian/ whoever raised you (not to be confused with genetics, though genes obviously also play a role).
If your parents are clueless about proper nutrition when you are younger and you grow up underdeveloped? (if it’s from consuming heavy goyslop or whatever the case maybe) then your underdeveloped and it’s over.
Your parents don’t force you out of your comfort zone and you end up chronically online/antisocial? It’s over.
Your parents are physically/emotionally abusive? (ARGUABLY WORST CASE SCENARIO) That’s a direct gateway into neurodevelopmental disorders. Pretty much over.
Not to mention if you wanna go the genetics route and say environment doesn’t matter (which is cope), guess what? That still comes from your parents.
I’m not even going to get into the other stuff like how you might be born into poverty/third world country (also arguably worst case scenario) because your parents wanted to have a kid.
At the end of the day, after all the debates or arguments or whatever, are over with, it truly is a game of luck. It just depends how lucky you are. Hopefully in another life you don’t grow up underdeveloped. You actually learn how to talk to people properly, and don’t need to rely on surgery to properly develop your craniofacial structure.
I would go as far as to say DONT blame your genetics. Instead blame your parents, though in the most ideal world you wouldn’t blame anyone at all.
Edit (by me): I personally have a veery good relationship with my parents although I have no doubt that a lot of issues I have in my life were indirectly worsened by them (that being said I only have good things to say about my family and they all tried their best and continue to treat me well).
